Helena Tubridy's Birth Order Quiz

Discover how your position in the family may influence your mindset and approach to starting a family. Take this quick quiz to learn more and see how tailored support can help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

1) Where do you fall in the sibling lineup?

A) Eldest – The responsible one B) Middle child – The adaptable one C) Youngest – The free spirit D) Only child – The independent one

2) How big was your sibling squad growing up?

A) Just me! – No siblings, no sibling drama B) 1-2 – A manageable mix of chaos and companionship C) 3-4 – A full house, plenty of personalities D) 5 or more – We needed a seating chart at the dinner table

3) As a child, how much responsibility did you take on at home?

A) A LOT – I practically co-parented my younger siblings B) Some – I helped out but wasn’t running the show C) Very little – I was usually the one being looked after D) Not applicable – I was an only child, so no sibling duties

4) How did your parents treat you growing up?

A) I was the “go-to” child—always responsible, always needed B) It was a mix—sometimes I had to fight for attention C) They were more relaxed with me—I had an easier ride D) It varied depending on the situation

5) Did you ever feel overlooked or invisible in your family?

A) Nope—I was always front and center B) Sometimes—I had to work for attention C) Often—I felt like I was in the background D) It depended on the situation

6) How do you feel about starting your own family?

A) 100% ready – I’ve been preparing for this my whole life B) Cautiously optimistic – I think I’ll get there C) Not ready at all – Still figuring things out D) Unsure – It’s a huge decision, and I need time

7) How has your family dynamic shaped your thoughts on parenthood?

A) It made me want a big, loving family of my own B) I’d rather keep things small and simple C) It made me question whether I even want kids D) It hasn’t really influenced my decision

8) Do you feel pressure from family to have kids?

A) YES – It’s all they talk about B) Some – I get the occasional hint C) Not at all – No pressure from them D) Actually, they’ve discouraged me from having kids

9) How confident are you in your ability to handle parenting?

A) Very – I’ve had loads of practice B) Somewhat – I think I’ll be okay C) Not really – I have no idea what I’m doing D) Haven’t thought about it much yet

10) How do you think your birth order has affected your approach to fertility and TTC?

A) It’s made me eager to start a family—I’m ready! B) It’s made me more cautious—I want to be sure it’s the right time C) I don’t think it’s influenced me much D) Honestly, I have no idea

Does Your Birth Order Shape Your Fertility Journey?