Have you have been trying to conceive for so long that the memory of candles,  scattered rose-petals and the spontaneous sex is a distant memory? Baby-making sex sucks! Intimate aspects of your lives tested, checked, examined … and found lacking! You may be forgiven for feeling resentful or overwhelmed by the whole process of charting, dates, times, meds and procedures.
‘How can I have sex when I’m full of meds and my moods swing like crazy? I’m irritable and bitchy half the time, bloated and miserable the rest. When I do feel like sex, it’s off-limits. Men have it so easy!’
The familiar passion, and pleasure, of sex gets out of kilter and it’s not surprising that intimacy takes a battering. Most of my clients experience these feelings and then … feel bad about it.
How about getting the right support to deal with the emotional side of infertility?
It’s possible to offload your frustrations, change your mindset around conceiving, and  get your sex life  back. Discover how fertility coaching and mindfulness hypnotherapy help you achieve this and combine to boost natural fertility and implantation. Studies show it reduces the risk of miscarriage and prepares you for a healthy pregnancy.
IVF and NaPro fertility treatments aren’t aphrodisiacs – but it is possible to reboot your sex life. Good sex has a multitude of positive benefits. Orgasm not only releases tension and stress, it also tones and strengthens the uterus, readying it for pregnancy. The rush of oxytocin, (often called the ‘cuddle’ hormone and not without good reason) makes you feel great and brings a feeling of closeness.
It’s incredibly unfair that you’ve experienced the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments. Sex and intimacy, mood and well-being are casualties of infertility struggles. I love seeing clients return for a session with big smiles – having reclaimed passionate sex, just for fun.
They go on to use these same methods to rekindle their passion … following the birth of their precious baby.
